जब २० बर्षको उमेरमा बिवाह भएपछि 

Female 21

Tanahu

I got married on 20… It was my love marriage but mwn laagera haina just because mero love xa vanne dad le thaha payera jabarjasti jaanu paryo… i havent think ke ma yeti chado tyo ghar bata bidaai hunxu vanera…. kati sapna thyo…. mero gharma dad mum sadhai jhagada hunthyo…. dad beluka maa drinks garne manxe bolaune khane ….waste of money… yetikai kharcha garne garnu hunthyo…. ramro job thyena rice meel thyo hamro ani aru aru…. as a farmer ani tespaxi mero sapna thyo ghara sukha lyauxu ekdin ma ni ramro job garxu vanne but yestai vayo…. vaagye ko khel

even ma kailai ghar chodera hinthina katai ghara mum dad jhagda garxa kee vanera ma huda samjhauthye alii alii vayeni… ma gharko ekli chori dai thyo aafnai sur garera ktm maa

dukha sapai mailai xa jasto laagthyo…

bihey vayo…bihey sangai sapna pani sap udyo…. harek raat ma runthye kinaki ma gharkai yaad matra aauthyo… ani yeta ko sasu mom pani testai…. kaam khaassai hunthena hunata vayeni ma eklai le sakthye kaam anii tei pani alikati kei kaam mistake vayo vani ni din var naboldine anta gayera sunaune garthyo….dukha laagthyo…. husband le ta dherai maya garnu hunxa…. ani mero amaaju khai k vanxa english maa …. bihey vaisakyo anii yeta aauda sasu mum ra amaaju le 7 8 thousand ko shopping haru garthyo tara malai kei lyauthena…. katai janu paryo vani paisa magda ni kaile ni raamro mukh garera dinthena …. malai chai baru maya nagaris tara vedvaab garda dukha laagthyo…. runthye eklai… kailai uniharusanga naramro huna mwn laagthena…. ani katai gayera kei kaam le gayera aauda pani aaja ta kaa pugera aai dhaatera yesto usto…. scooter kailai chuna dexaina aaja samma…. ma jaa jana pareni bus ma janu parxa…. harek kuraama rok tok…. even bachchaa payena vanera karauxa…. means huda pani yeslai ta boru maardina parxa kya ho k k ho k k….ma jaani jaani means vako jasto saarai gaaro xa… din raat gharko yaad aauxa…. usko chori lai chai maaita aauda ghar nagayeni hunthyo jasari 12 15 din raakhxa ma chai jana lagyo vani ni 1 2 din maa ta aauxau hola ni vanxa

kharcha pani pauni vaneko ma maaita jana lagda matra ho…tei pani adkalera dinxa vane jasari ghara kei laana paunnaa ….. aafno ghara mummy lai dukha sunau vani usai ta mummy ko vaadiyeko mwn jhan kati tension hola vanera gumsayera raakhxu….baaba ko 1 min ko decision le yesto vayo…..

thaha xaina kailai khusi aauxa kee audaina….

tesaile sapai girls lai vanxu kee aafu bihey garera ghar ko environment bujha ani aafu adjust huna sakxu jasto laagx vani take decisions…..jiwan bitaunay tyai ho gaaro hunxa

ma koi sanga dukha pokhnay napayera yetikai yaa lekhye mwn ko bojh halka vayo……..


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